Journalist and writer Anna Wolfe has officially entered the podcasting world with her new series, How To Get Wet When You’re Dry, a candid exploration of love, lust, relationships, and intimacy—all without alcohol. The podcast seeks to provide a safe, unfiltered space for conversations about sex, emotional vulnerability, and sobriety, topics often stigmatized in mainstream media.
Anna Wolfe: A Journalist Turned Podcaster
Anna Wolfe is a respected journalist whose work has appeared in Teen Vogue, Wired, New Scientist, The Independent, and Stylist. Several years into her own recovery journey, Wolfe drew upon her personal experiences to create a podcast that reflects both curiosity and authenticity.
Wolfe explains, “I’ve always wondered when I’d publicly mess up my career and love life. It’s good to know it’s now.”
The statement embodies the podcast’s tone: humorous, self-aware, and unafraid of vulnerability. By sharing her own experiences alongside those of her guests, Wolfe encourages listeners to engage in honest discussions about topics often considered taboo.
The Concept: Breaking Barriers Around Sobriety and Intimacy
How To Get Wet When You’re Dry challenges conventional ideas about dating, intimacy, and sexual exploration in a sober context. Each episode addresses real-life questions, such as:
- How do you navigate dating without alcohol as a social lubricant?
- Is sober sex fundamentally different from sex while drinking?
- How do shame and past experiences influence intimacy?
The podcast aims to normalize open discussion around sex and sobriety while promoting healthy self-image, consent, and communication. Wolfe emphasizes that the show is not meant to be prescriptive; rather, it offers honest conversations inspired by lived experience.
Star-Studded Guest Lineup
The podcast features a diverse array of guests from the worlds of music, comedy, activism, and sexual health, providing multiple perspectives on love, relationships, and sobriety. Confirmed guests include:
- Bob The Drag Queen – Known for blending comedy, advocacy, and queer representation.
- Margaret Cho – Actress and comedian, discussing sobriety, body image, and emotional unavailability.
- Seye Adelekan – Gorillaz bassist, sharing insights on creativity, connection, and vulnerability.
- Cindy Gallop – Founder of Make Love Not Porn, offering a sex-positive perspective on communication and intimacy.
Episode Highlights
- Wolfe and Margaret Cho discuss sobriety’s impact on relationships, body image pressures, and the challenges of emotional availability.
- Cindy Gallop addresses alcohol as a dating accessory, societal pressures from the male gaze, and the critical role of communication in sexual satisfaction.
- Other episodes blend candid dialogue with playful elements such as voice notes, film clips, and off-the-cuff commentary.
Why This Podcast Matters Now
The timing of Wolfe’s podcast aligns with broader societal trends:
- The Sober-Curious Movement: Growing awareness of mindful drinking and sobriety has led to increased demand for content exploring life without alcohol.
- Authenticity in Media: Audiences are gravitating toward unfiltered, genuine conversations about personal experiences.
- Gen Z and Millennial Influence: Younger audiences are challenging traditional norms around dating, intimacy, and self-expression.
By addressing these issues, Wolfe’s podcast provides a platform for discussion and connection in a space where humor, honesty, and vulnerability intersect.
Dating and sexual relationships are often framed around alcohol consumption. Wolfe’s podcast explores how sobriety reshapes these dynamics:
By blending these discussions with humor and relatability, Wolfe creates a space for listeners to navigate their own experiences with intimacy and sobriety.